These articles go beyond the empty slogan “be confident.” Confidence mainly comes through self-improvement and achievement.
If you want to be confident, then become a more excellent person.
Here are a few examples of confidence boosting activities: get fit, take on leadership positions, dress better, take up a valuable hobby (like becoming a musician), or learn the martial arts. So, be confident and proud of who you are, but don’t emphasize your lack of height either. Every smart person emphasizes the traits that others prefer. It’s why a well-endowed woman might wear a tighter shirt, but won’t draw attention to her ugly nose.
Wear shoes with a heel, avoid clothes that make you look shorter (like pleated pants).
Whining and complaining are unattractive because they make you look weak and insecure. David wrote an article, Hey Short Guys: How To Become Taller which explains ways shorter guys can come across as more dominant and confident, and therefore more attractive.
Also this article explains the main factor women are looking for in a guy: power.
It was as if he had peeped in on my mental conversation earlier that afternoon, when I was debating whether I should wear wedges or flats.“I don’t really know . While he probably just asked this question out of banal curiosity—he wasn’t exactly the tallest guy in the world—little did he know how loaded this question really was. Years before this, I went to an all-female high school, which meant that if there were going to be boys present at a dance, we had to invite them. Sure, Mark was my buddy from childhood—we talked on AIM all the time. Through high school and college, and even into my early twenties, with beau after beau, height was one of the defining characteristics in what I found attractive in a man.
I distinctly remember brainstorming who I was going to invite to my first dance as a freshman. He was cute, friendly, funny, and pretty much the ideal first-dance date candidate except for one thing: He was a couple inches shorter than me. If I still felt petite wearing four-inch heels with my frame of 5 feet 6 inches, he was worth my attention.
If you’re short, have other things going for you physically. Raise your “value” and you will be more attractive to women at any height. Once again, if you are interested in learning a lot more, check out Size Doesn’t Matter: The Short Man’s Handbook of Dating And Relationship Success, and be sure to browse the hundreds of free articles here.It makes sense because short men are often bullied for something outside of their control (height). And, gaining confidence isn’t as easy as saying “be confident.” However, it is essential for getting dates.First, don’t whine or complain about your height around women.It sucks knowing that a genetic factor over which you have no control can disqualify you from the start! But, getting dates isn’t impossible for short guys. I have had success in dating and relationships (yes, even Tinder) and I’m going to share my tips.Many short guys date beautiful women and get into long lasting and fulfilling relationships. Not only do I draw from my own experience, but also the science of dating and attraction.