“Women don’t generally give you a second chance.” Here are the 10 worst mistakes to avoid when you’re texting a woman. Ladies can smell a mass text from a mile away—especially when Sarah and Lauren are actually roommates.But leave a grace period between when you hit send on your witty-and-clever invitation and the actual night of. Women like when you take charge, because indecision—like “wherever you want to go” or “I can eat whatever”—comes off more annoying than it does polite. No matter how mundane or trivial the subject matter, if you like her, you will coerce your thumbs to form a proper response. On the other hand, Masters believes you can use this to your advantage. drunk and trying to define your relationship status at 3 a.m.), your “k” shows you’re mature—and will leave her groveling in the morning.“Send me a pic,” and “What ru wearing” sound juvenile and pervy.